10.20.2006

Surgery #2: 4 Days Out - Update #2

I just got bac k from seeing Avery again after dinner tonight. Jon had been with her since 12 noon today while I slept and my mom hung out with Caiden. She was doing great when we got back over there at about 8:30 pm. Jon had gotten approval to hold her at about 4 PM today and he said that she had been doing really well since then. Apparently, she burped and passed some gas (sorry, I know that is probably not fun to read, but it is true and may be the source of her discomfort and madness), and settled right down once he picked her up. She also finally had a big BM (the first one since surgery Monday), so from a GI standpoint, things must have felt much better. We have off and on really thought that maybe GI issues were responsible for the back arching/crying evetns and we are really starting to believe that even more confidently. So, I will approach that tract with the doctors tomorrow. I am just wondering if changing her formula might help. They have her on the same stuff that she was on prior to surgery, except that the protein powder (we were adding that to the over-the-counter formula so that her protein needs were met even with her low calorie needs) additive is different than the one were had at home. We were using ProMod, which actually I guess they have stopped making that all together. So, the hospital has a different brand they use which Avery has never had before arriving here. It seems possible that it could be causing GI sensitivity or discomfort for her. So, we will talk to the docs and the nutritionists about that as soon as we can. Since she was so comfy when we got there, mom and I worked on changing the bed clothes so that she had a clean and comfy spot to rest. We had planned to give her a bath after, but she stayed sleeping even after Jon got up and laid her back in the crib. WOW! Since these surgeries, I can't remember when she last stayed alseep when we moved her. Thanks to God for that progress and the rest for her body. Since she was resting, I told Mom that we just needed to let her be and that she should take the opportunity to get some sleep herself before the nurse had to mess with her again at midnight. We can wash her up tomorrow when she is already awake. So, I left with Avery sleeping peacfully and with Mom lying down to rest and came back to the house to spend some time with Jon and Caiden before bed. I'll get to spend some time with Caiden tomorrow afternoon too, while Mom sleeps (if she needs to depending on how much she gets tonight) and Jon hangs out with Avery. I'll be back on evening and overnight shift tomorrow. Mom and I take turns with the overnight...Jon has a tough time staying up all night if he has to. He is the early morning person out of all of us. It's a good thing we have both. Well, just wanted you all to know that she finally calmed and got to rest today. That's a great big step in the right direction! YEAH...all your prayers are helping! One last thing...if you take a moment to look at the blogs and links I have added to this page, you will notice that there are links to information about some other children. These are children of people we have met here in Baltimore (either this trip or before) or through some other avenue who are stuggling with their own major medical problems (some the same as or in a similar line to Avery's and some completely different). I ask you, please, to include these beautiful children and their families in your prayers. They all are traveling hard and scary (and yet hopefully hopeful) paths and need as much support and strength as possible. They have all touched our lives...maybe they'll touch yours too. Take a moment to learn about them by clicking on their links. Thanks so much!

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

HOLLY AND FAMILY

THANK THE LORD LITTLE AVERY IS AT REST AND HEALING BETTER EVERY DAY, THIS IS A WONDRFUL COMFORT TO ALL.

I HOPE THIS ALLOWS YOU ALL SOME TIME FOR A LITTLE MORE NEEDED REST.

BLESSINGS , LOVE AND PRAYERS TO ALL OF YOU .

KISS THE LITTLE ONES FOR ME !!

LOVE ALWAYS DAD AND LINDA

Anonymous said...

Dear Avery's family,
Just wanted you to know that all of our seventh graders at Holy Trinity are continuing to pray for Avery,and ask me each day how she is doing. They clapped in happiness when I told them so far no you know whats have returned. They also check the posts on theri ownaand tell me they have sent you prayers. Stay strong and confident in God's love, HTEA teacher

Anonymous said...

Holly,

It is so exciting to hear things are improving for Avery!!

Thanks so much for keeping us updated, I have a half a dozen people ask me every morning if there is a new blog up!
I hope that you have a great weekend.
Love and Hugs to everyone,
Diane, Kevin, Devin, and Matthew

Anonymous said...

Dear Holly, Jon and all:

So very glad to hear that our Little Darlin' is doing better. You also may check the water as well as the formula. I know that sounds silly, but water from different areas of the country affect me, so it may be the case with Avery as well as the formula change. Glad you all can get some rest, didn't hear anything, but am hoping that the colds are over with for all of you as well.
Prayers and hugs,
Jean and Ghodrat

Anonymous said...

I AM SO GLAD TO HEAR THAT AVERY SEEMS TO BE DOING WELL. IS CAIDEN'S COLD ANY BETTER? DID YOU EVER GET A WINTER COAT? DO WE NEED TO SEND YOU MONEY FOR A COAT OR ANY OTHER NEEDS? HOPE TO SEE YOU BEFORE LONG! LOVE AND PRAYERS GREAT GRANNY

Anonymous said...

Holly and family,
We are so very glad everything is well there. We think about yall' evry day and are thankful for the updates. Yall' will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. We hope to see everyone very soon!
Love
Holly, Josh, and Abby

Anonymous said...

Jon, Holly, Caiden, and Avery,
Just want you to know that you have been in our thoughts and prayers as well as those of our school, work and friends. Glad to hear that Avery seems to be doing well. You are such wonderful advocates for her. I know that is draining, so we are praying for rest and strength for you as well. Dave, Jill, Jonathan, Justin, and Lauren

Happy Avery Doll. August 2006

Happy Avery Doll.  August 2006
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Little Miss Sweet Pea. September 27, 2006

Little Miss Sweet Pea.  September 27, 2006
Sleeping Beauty, the night before first surgery.